From what Ihave seen in this thread, I am certain that the various commenters all have different understanding of what the simple word “control” means! And I would take that to a higher level, and propose a theory that human understanding of words is just like snowflakes: No two are alike.
Whether this is true or not is not able to be determined, because none of us can really see into anyone else’s mind. However, it is definitely true that every person’s understanding of any word is dependent on that person’s life experiences.
The point is one that has been stated quite well in this thread, that, in order to have a meaningful discussion about complex abstract issues, we must be as clear as possible about the terms we are using. It does seem to me that it can be much better to discuss the possible different interpretations of a term rather than simply ignore those by trying not to use the term at all.
So here is one term from this (and other) discussions: Evolution. I am virtually certain that Richard uses this term to mean something that none of those arguing with him believe the term means. And this leads directly to both sides talking past the other.
Richard, in the scientific community, Evolution says nothing about whether God exists, or not. Even Evolutionary Theory that concludes that all life on earth appears to have descended from the same original life form does not say anything about whether God exists, or God was involved at any stage, in any manner. Please, for all participants, do not use your personal interpretation of what you think Evolution means and impose your interpretation of what it means onto what someone else writes.
The next word with a lot of different interpretations is “control”! How much control has a being exerted when he or she initiates a sequence of actions that are tightly coupled and very predictable? How much control has that person exerted when the actions are irrevocably initiated, but the person did not know the consequences of the initiating action? And how much control is an observer exerting who knows what the consequences will be and yet chooses not to intervene? And how much control is that same observer exerting when he or she does choose to intervene?
All of these questions seem to me to be right at the heart of interactions between parents and children, and between God and us humans.
I believe that God knows exactly what actions I will choose in the future, knows exactly what the results of those actions will be (intended and unintended consequences), and has intentionally decided whether (and how) to intervene - which He does in ways that occasionally are discernable, or at least subjectively identifiable, but most often it is not possible to identify explicit intervention by God.
I believe that God created this universe, and put us into it, because He has good reasons to do that. I am certain that no human can even begin to understand the totality of God’s reasons.
It is by faith that I can trust that God knows better than I do what is really good for me, for my entire eternal being. I can only see what is going on in this life, can only influence what is happening in this life for other people. So this life has to be a primary focus in determining what I should do. The only real influence my belief in Jesus has on my actions is to give me the reason for choosing what to do.
So what I believe about control is that God does know what will happen, does intervene when necessary so that His will is done. And we humans are often way off base when we think we know exactly what God wants us to do, instead of realizing that what He really wants is that we choose to do whatever we choose to do because we love Him, and because we love our neighbors.
I also believe very strongly that God comes to each of us where we each are. He can work with each of us to develop a good relationship, even though we have very different understanding of who He is, and what we think He wants. I dare not claim that any other person must have the same understanding of God, or God’s control, as I have.