This is a good question to ask, whether we do or donāt. Why? Phil and the author both mention declines in church attendance. I think for some reasons, itās better that way. There is plenty of church attendance that has nothing to do with church; that could be accomplished at a political party meeting, for example. We donāt need the syncretism, if thatās the case.
There are some really good responses in the posts already. I identify strongly with @knor , @SkovandOfMitaze and @jammycakes. Church needs to be a community of faith that encourages and builds up in Christ. For me that includes relationships with people at church, Christ-centered preaching and music that reinforces the preaching by allowing me to participate in the words themselves.
One of the things that Iāve found particularly valuable at the church weāve been going to for the last year and a half is the intentionality built in to the church culture at fostering relationships and getting to know people. Itās hard in a good sized church to get to know people, and at this one, lots of people make a real effort.
I wanted to comment a bit on the reasons stated in the article:
#1 Because Iām bad at remembering how to be a Christian.
This is huge for me. I am easily distracted and obsessed with all sorts of things that donāt help me at all to be a Christian. I need the regular, consistent refocusing.
#2
But for me, as someone who lives alone and works from home, the communal dimensions of the Christian life arenāt incidental or nice add-ons. They are a safety net and a tangible sign of grace. That may be too therapeutic for some, but for people who lack family close by ā or any family at all ā church community could be the difference between life and death.
I think her second section heading is vapid. But the last paragraph of the section is much better. There should be a communal dimension in Christian life, an itās rare. I really havenāt been to a church where individuals are invested in each other in this way, because we are the church together but really only because there are generations of civic community membership that carries over into the church. In another private thread, one person suggested that if Christians were seeking to meet the needs of others (in and out of the church) in hands-on ways, doing the work ourselves, the world would be different because of that influence. Iām frustrated that we do it so poorly even within the church (as I know it, I must say).
#3 Because church includes people who arenāt like me.
Yes! One of the benefits of the church we go to now is that there is at least some diversity, particularly when the university students are in town. We really, really need to expand our understanding of the breadth of the body of Christ.
#4 Because some people are called to reform from within.
So so so hard. I often felt at our former church like I was a missionary to the church from within. I think I accomplished zero. But we need people chipping away at the stuff that needs to go.
How to address it? I donāt know. How to tactfully bring up the serious problems from last Sundayās sermon which were:
- mischaracterization of a group who is not interested in religion at all and wants not to have it be a part of their politics.
- exaggeration of so-called opposition to the church by āthe cultureā/āwoe is usā attitude.
- promotion of the deception that christians are the only ones who can do good works.
We need always to be reforming. Always to be cleaning our own house
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As James pointed out, trying to do church online during lock downs was less than ideal, but also better than nothing.
Iāve always been a letter writer, rather than phone caller. Dunno why I prefer writing. I sent hundreds of notes and letters and a bit of mail art (I embroidered a āmake a maskā kit onto plastic canvas and sent it to my artist friend, Jane. She loved it.) during lock down and limited access to church, trying to stay connected to people. I found out who valued those connections. And who didnāt.
I learned that being the Body of Christ is an intentional act that I really value and need to put more into myself. Just showing up is not the same as ministering.
Likewise, for me at least, connecting with people online is nothing like real relationships, where we need to treat each other differently, because we are in person. Iāve met some folks here with whom I correspond a LOT. Itās wonderful. But it isnāt church. It canāt be. We can talk about what we do at church and what it means to us, but we are not able to actually go through it together. Thereās a difference.