God designed and defined marriage as between one man and one woman for life. It is not our prerogative to redefine what God has decreed. Of course, we live in a fallen world, and God’s design for marriage is not always followed. But when it is not, there are always negative consequences.
Homosexuality is also not God’s original design. God’s law is designed to promote human flourishing. God did not give his law because he is a cosmic killjoy, but for our flourishing. We are always better off when we embrace and follow his law. And there are always negative consequences when we do not.
God’s design is also clearly seen in the design of our bodies. Male and female human bodies are designed to fit together for a purpose. Male and male, or female and female are not. For example, there are also “male” and “female” electrical components. Our electrical outlets only work when used as designed, male into female, and our bodies also only work properly when used as designed.
There is a narrative that is ubiquitous in our society. This is that we must affirm a person’s behavior to affirm a person. If we do not, we are disrespecting (or worse) that person. That is absolutely false and a lie from the pit of hell. Must we affirm an alcoholic or addict’s behavior to affirm their value? Of course not.
Yes, each person is created in the image of God and has immeasurable value. Because of this, we must also respect and value each person as God does. It is the very fact that we see all people as created in the image of God and having immeasurable value that we do not affirm their destructive behavior and want to help them change.
In Romans chapter one, starting in verse 18, Paul describes the terrible consequences when we deny God’s creative order. These awful consequences are not just personal, but affect the whole of a society or nation.
First, there is a suppression of the truth, and it unleashes God’s righteous wrath. God can be plainly known through his creation. His eternal power and divine nature is clearly evident. But when we reject what we know, our thinking becomes futile and distorted. It is not as if we don’t know God’s righteous decrees. We do, but ignore them. As a result, we are given over to shameful lusts.
This is the prelude to individual and societal degradation and decline as described in Romans 1:29-31 and following: “They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice. They are gossips, 30 slanderers, God-haters, insolent, arrogant and boastful; they invent ways of doing evil; they disobey their parents; 31 they have no understanding, no fidelity, no love, no mercy.”
Scripture is clear on these issues, and we can see all of these destructive behaviors on the increase in American society. More and better laws and structures cannot stem this tide—only a return to God and his word.
There is one further issue with same sex marriage. The Bible uses marriage as a picture of Christ’s relationship to the church—believers—in Revelation and other scriptures. Same sex “marriage” profanes this beautiful and holy relationship, and in this way is an abomination. God does not agree with our redefining what he has instituted, and it is evil for us to try and do that.