Beagle Lady I’m not sure I understand you’re question about my closet. I take the shoes I’ve found home and put them in my closet. Am I missing something?
If owning a few dozen shoes seems extravagant I just wish I could enjoy such extravagance with the rest of my wardrobe but my social security check won’t allow for it. God hear my prayer!
If the shoe fits I wear it. I never realized how many perfectly fine shoes are thrown away. Maybe it’s the sort of people who get a new car when the ashtray is full. Anyway I’ve found enough shoes that fit to fill my closets. Praise God!
A bit supercilious beagle lady? Apparently you are a bit skeptical about the reality of the Law of Attraction. I live in New York City and we don’t have a town dump. The shoes show up anywhere and everywhere while I move about the city and though they are usually somewhat used they are in good shape.
I appreciate your good attitude. Every night, we read (currently “The Lord of the Rings”) together as a family with my 3 kids, and then do devotions and prayer. We start with what we are grateful to God for, prior to what we ask Him for (currently a bunny with a painful ear and a friend’s dad who is on a vent with Covid). Starting with what we are grateful for really does help our attitude. And we have a ton to be grateful for. That’s not to say we should not give more to those who don’t have anything; but thank you for your example
Prayers for your friend’s dad. Covid has tapered of a lot here but still a lot of suffering throughout the world. I am still finding it hard to love those who minimize the impact.
If your kids started to “come across” a bunch of useful things and bring them home what would you do? (Oh I know, you are going to say I lack faith, etc.)
Thank you for sharing that. It is really as Jesus says: if you start with a little seed of faith and God moves into your life to reward your faith like the mustard seed it transforms into a great unshakable thing. Blessings to you and yours.
I tried to place that last one under Randy’s reply. I’ll get the hang of this one day.
Klax
(The only thing that matters is faith expressed in love.)
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Well done Henry; you manifest purpose in your need and you’re honest about it all here. It’s natural to want, to need, to believe that God is that intimate that He arranges these things. It’s also natural for others - including me - to be initially suspicious of your claims; closets full of shoes remind some of Imelda Marcos and her disgusting abuse of privilege. And if it’s not conspicuous consumption, which it isn’t, then there will be some other natural explanation, like these are rejects from a shoe factory or shop. But you sought and you found, made the best of your situation. God bless you.
I have difficulty believing God actually answers prayers as if He were a cosmic vending machine. When Jesus says we will get whatever we ask for in prayer, this is either flatly incorrect or there are three hundred and forty-nine hidden caveats. I’m not taking about people praying for wealth or personal gain. I’m taking about pain and suffering. No one would die of cancer if that statement were remotely true. The purpose of prayer is to communicate with God. Petitioning is only natural and can be healthy but prayer is about a relationship with God. We worship him, praise him, ask him for forgiveness, strength and guidance.
All prayer evidence is anecdotal, the vast majority of it easy to explain away, double-blind prayer studies are not usually kind to the believer and billions of things regularly happen that were prayed to not happen. Any actual answered prayers could just very well be coincidence, assuming they do happen.
Not to mention, when you claim God answered one prayer but let 500 babies be slaughtered during a genocide, petitionary prayer looks like a bunch of nonsense.
Prayer works in the sense that communicating with God and putting him first in our life orients us in the right direction. It’s one of the most important things we can do. Just don’t expect God to feed your kids if they are hungry and you have no money. Whether you ask him to or not.
A statement reported to have been said by Jesus in the Gospels is not enough to overturn what seems very obvious about the world to me.
Confirmation bias, I agree, is a huge issue. It affects prayer, too. And the fact that we have more or less than others means nothing about whether God loves us differently.
I struggle, because I grew up as a missionary kid in what is currently the poorest region of the world in West Africa. During a famine, we knew those who were starving and, while the missionaries did what they could, I asked God sometimes to take my blanket or food and give it to someone who did not have one. I have no miraculous proof of God’s existence. There is just a huge need.
I struggle, in thinking about gratefulness, what to be grateful for. I am grateful for what I can learn in a difficult time, but not for the suffering itself.
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I appreciate @Vinnie 's post above. Stacking our faith in “answered prayer” can be very misleading.
I agree with his description of a major purpose of prayer…to put God first in our lives.
Prayer was is and will be a somewhat uselless tool for me.Ive turned away from it a long time ago.Actually im kind in agreement with the Deistic statement that “God doesnt care for his creation anymore”.Because it really seems that it is like that most of the time
The deistic statement is tough. Natural evil certainly gives it credence. Yet I think prayer is the greatest and most useful tool a Christian possesses.Without it we will always feel empty and off a little bit. Our lives should be grounded in God. For me, this is where faith comes into play. At some point we must trust God despite the way things may be going in the world. Bad things happen. They happened to Jesus. As Dorothy Sayers wrote:
“For whatever reason God chose to make man as he is— limited and suffering and subject to sorrows and death—He had the honesty and the courage to take His own medicine. Whatever game He is playing with His creation, He has kept His own rules and played fair. He can exact nothing from man that He has not exacted from Himself."
I actually came back to faith because of suffering. Pain and suffering makes life too senseless without God. It strips everything of genuine meaning in my life. A worldview is not about only what we can put in a test tube and prove, but must also be something we can live by. It must address the issue of how now shall we live?
All these has nothing to do with prayer.Prayer is uselles.It worked for Jesus and the apostles for some reason.It doesnt work for anyone else.If you believe prayer "gave you strenght"you have to thank your brain for that (like the placebo effect)it doesnt mean prayer worked.
The deistic argument finds me in agreement .God doesnt really care anymore.
This is true if you believe God to be a sadistic fu@@@ .I dont