I have a friend who was in Yale Crusade. His daughter is not a Christian but now, this week, starting astrophysics grad school at UMass-Amherst. You all know how deeply secular New England is as a whole. LAbri and the American Scientific Affilation have offices in MA. Any suggestions about how the Gospel can get to a poor, stressed out, and isolated, but brilliant student in such a secular and spiritually dark place?
What worked for me was just looking through some of the resources that Biologos had to offer. The raw honesty of trying to bring together your faith and your knowledge and love of science is what helped me to finally settle my bigger questions of faith.
Edit: looking at the other responses here, I would have to agree that it would be probably wise to give her proper space when it comes to this topic, and allow her to come to you when the time is right.
Yup, about 30% secular according to polls. Not exactly deeply secular. Definitely not âspiritually darkâ.
Yes. Leave her alone.
I would be extremely surprised if a brilliant American science graduate didnât already know about the gospel. If by some miracle she has never heard of it, sheâll have the research skills to find it for herself if sheâs interested.
If you insist on contacting her, offer to help with her actual problems[1] - poverty, stress and isolation - and donât foist your religious views on her. Show her what Christians are (supposed to be) like and let her ask.
If she is brilliant but stressed and you go in there with Bible blazing sheâs likely to tell you to eff off, and be quite right to do so.
assuming they are actual problems and not something you are imagining âŠď¸
I am from New England and understand what he meant. Many in these parts feel this way. The poll you linked ha Christianity dropping from 76% (2007) to 58% (2023-24). Seems to be pretty rapid and self-identification doesnât tell one about how invested you are in that (e.g. church attendances).
Maybe this is why I am less hostile to YECs than some on here. Itâs rare to meet one and people are usually quiet about religion around these parts.
Vinnie
I know what he meant, I just feel he is exaggerating unreasonably.
Incidentally, the article you linked to ignores non-evangelical churches. Itâs a bit misleading to ignore Catholics, and even more so to suggest that Utah is irreligious.
P.S. Youâre up early!
I know what he meant, I just feel he is exaggerating unreasonably.
Incidentally, the article you linked to ignores non-evangelical churches. Itâs a bit misleading to ignore Catholics, and even more so to suggest that Utah is irreligious.
P.S. Youâre up early!
I agree there was an exaggeration and the evangelical number didnât even change much. Catholics and mainline Protestants lost the most. Atheism doubled from 2-4% then stayed the same. Itâs the ânonesâ that are increasing. It does seem spiritually dead around here at times though from my limited and anecdotal perspective. And yes, I did get up early. My MacBook is not turning on so I am moving all files from the magical cloud to my less used desktop.
Vinnie
I suppose it depends on what youâre used to. NY (city and upstate) seemed more religious than the UK, and Utah seemed obsessed. Iâve never before been in a bookstore where the âreligionâ section took up half the shop.
Iâd say, forget the Gospel Coalitionâs stats! Itâs our entire country thatâs a âspiritual graveyardâ - and has been for at least a generation now - probably more. We are now entirely a mission field, starting with the âmost churchedâ folks in the most churched states, where Christ has been reduced to mascot and merch rather than master.
I would begin by asking her about herself. What does she want out of life. Where is she heading and what does she hope for.
I would remind you of the parable of the prodigal son. There is a matter of timing. Some people are simply not going to hear what you have to say because it doesnât speak to their life at the part of it they are in at this time. And pushing things at such a time will only push them away, so when they do need something they will more likely look elsewhere.
Yes. Leave her alone.
I would be extremely surprised if a brilliant American science graduate didnât already know about the gospel. If by some miracle she has never heard of it, sheâll have the research skills to find it for herself if sheâs interested.
If you insist on contacting her, offer to help with her actual problems - poverty, stress and isolation - and donât foist your religious views on her. Show her what Christians are (supposed to be) like and let her ask.
@Roy has it right. Itâs nearly impossibly that she doesnât already know the gospel, Treating her as if she doesnât already know can only be condescension. Donât do that.
If you want to reach her, invite her to dinner occasionally. Feed her, and send her home with leftovers. (As one of my professors often remarked about getting grad students to attend optional seminars, âFeed them, and they will come.â) Ask about her studies, maybe even about that âMultiverseâ thing and get her opinion on it. She will likely be spending 80-100 or more every week studying, so donât be surprised when she is too busy to get together (especially around the end of semester). Be nice. Be so nice that she canât help but think well of you. Set an example so good she can never forget.