I think I hear something different than many Christians hear when I read these passages.
“That is how it will be with this wicked generation.” The main thing I hear there is-- “Don’t be wicked. Be righteous. Even though the fad is wickedness, focus on me. Follow my example. The wicked are doomed. They may be in the spotlight right now. But focus on me. Focus on righteousness.”
To me, this verse isn’t even a judgment. This is advice on how to put your soul in order, how it can be difficult, and how many “in this generation” fail at it.
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Matthew 8:10-- “Jesus…said to those following him, 'I tell you the truth, I have not found any one in Israel with such great faith…The subjects of the kingdom will be thrown outside into the darkness where there will be weeping and wailing and gnashing of teeth…”
If I were a Christian, I’d be QUITE concerned with this one. It seems aimed at those who think they are entitled to salvation… like they are better than others… like they deserve salvation and others don’t. And yet, the one who thinks he is unworthy will be crowned. Meanwhile, those who “got the doctrine right” will be gnashing their teeth, angry to be cast into the darkness. To me, this parable is about non-judgment. People who think “they have the doctrine right and others don’t” ought to pay special attention to this one.
[Jesus to His disciples] "If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words … it will be more bearable for Sodom and Gomorrah on the day of judgment than for that town. " (Matt 10:14)
Again, I think this bit is about NON-judgment. See the next line: “I am sending you out like sheep among wolves." A Christian shouldn’t presume to condemn or judge his enemies because of Matthew 10:14. Rather, he should be careful to avoid doing that because that is wolf-like.
Jesus is saying that God will sort out those who turn away or abuse those who speak Christ’s message of peace. But so many Christians interpret Matthew 10:14 as permission to be wolves themselves and bring God’s judgment on others themselves. But Christ is (perhaps) saying that Christians should never do that. Rather, they should be nonviolent sheep. And God will deal with those who persecute them.
“Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God” – John 3:3.
John just doesn’t speak to me the way Matthew does. The Synoptics seem to contain the real imperatives from Christ. John is about religion. The Synoptics are about righteousness. Don’t get me wrong. I have been moved and inspired by John. But it isn’t like Matthew. At worst, it is sometimes an excuse for Christians to ignore what Christ teaches in Matthew. And that can’t be right, can it?
Here is what I hear in John 3:3: To truly embrace righteousness and escape the wickedness of the world, one must fundamentally change one’s orientation to spiritual/moral things rather than sensual/material things.
But to many Christians it seems to mean, “Start going around identifying yourself as a Christian.” Maybe I’m wrong about that or stereotyping… but you must agree that at least SOME born again Christians interpret the verse in this way. I hope we agree that John 3:3 is not about what religion you profess. It is about a fundamental change, a getting in contact with who you essentially are and starting anew, something like that.
I just want to put a qualifier out here. I am a nonbeliever. But certain holy books speak to me. One example is the Bhagavad Gita. I love that book. I think it contains a lot of truth. But I am in no way shape or form a Hindu. I disagree with a ton of stuff in the Bhagavad Gita. But I’ve also learned a great deal from it.
I also think that the books Matthew and James contain a lot of truth. And I appreciate the truth that I find in those books. I think I’ve learned a great deal from them too. But, like the Gita, I question and disbelieve some of it.
So, unlike Jesus, I don’t speak with authority concerning what these texts say or mean. I can only tell you what I hear in them. And (if I have ears) maybe I can sometimes hear what they are trying to say. Or maybe I have them all wrong.
I feel weird commenting too much on the Bible and am much more enjoying sitting back and reading what Christians have to say about the questions I posed in the OP and the secondary topics that have sprung from it.