What Do You Mean When You Talk About Meaning (of Life, That is)?

Basic politeness doesn’t require that much nuance. You’re just as certain as he is about what may or may not be in God’s nature, and I’m equally certain that some here disagree with your convictions but somehow manage not to use words like “contemptible” to describe your opinions. Again, it’s not hard.

So you’re not a classical theist?

See. You managed to disagree with me without any ad hominem. It’s not hard.

Let me unpack my meaning. Matthew and Mark mention Jesus’ “cry of dereliction” (Ps 22:1) from the cross. Neither evangelist says anything about God’s emotions. The focus is Jesus in his humanity feeling abandoned by God and surrounded by enemies, like the psalmist. Any speculations about what God was feeling in that moment are just that – speculation. I take it as a general rule of thumb that we shouldn’t speculate about God’s thought life without pretty dang good textual evidence, which is lacking in the gospels themselves. (We could debate the meaning of darkness on the land and the rending of the Temple veil, but those are just inferences about literary symbols.)

What isn’t lacking are theories about what happened during those hours on the cross when Jesus bore God’s wrath. From My God, my God to Abba, into your hands I commit my spirit, it seems to me God the Father withdrew his presence for a moment, but Christ the Son never doubted his Father’s love. But, of course, that’s an inference from the text not explicitly stated. You see the problem?

A loving father may turn away from a child in justified anger, but he would never mock them, laugh at them, or make them feel he no longer loved them. That’s emotionally abusive. If that applies to mere human beings, surely it applies to God the Father. My two cents. Take it for what it’s worth.

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I thought about making this an edit, but it deserves its own post.

Try telling a person who’s lived (or living) in an abusive home that God the Father violated the Son, mocked him, laughed at him, derided him, and abandoned him in disgust, yet this was all somehow an expression of God’s love.

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It’s not that hard

It would be like telling a parent what it’s like to be a parent, even though you have never been a parent.

Allender and Longman continue and I couldn’t agree more:

Something inside us shouts: “It cannot be. How could the Father curse His Son? How could the perfect, beautiful, pure Son be assaulted with the vile content of our souls? How could He take our place—how could He bear our sin?”

In a mysterious instant, the Father who loved the Son from all eternity turned from Him in hatred. The Son became odious to the Father. It is the most inconceivable moment in the history of time. Jesus submitted to it in order to redeem His people for His Father’s glory: “‘He himself bore our sins’ in his body on the cross, so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; ‘by his wounds you have been healed’” (1 Peter 2:24)

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“Eli, Eli, lema sabachthani?”

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This is so good! Allender and Longman again:

The willingness of Jesus to bear the stripes of mockery opens our heart and draws us to see that God’s contempt has been poured out on the perfect, unblemished Son of God. We will never look into God’s eyes and see contempt or mockery. No matter how hard our heart becomes or how far we flee, the Father’s response at our return is not cold, cruel, cutting eyes, but the open arms of One who knows joy, not contempt, toward us.

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This pretty much confirms my intuition that God should not be personified. [Removed by moderator].

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Well, it is certainly demeaning and sacrilegious, when God is personified in this way.

Jay sure made his point vividly.

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Jesus didn’t say that and he wasn’t forsaken in the tomb?

And the personhood, the triune personhood, of God is somewhat foundational to Christianity, never mind any preaching to the contrary.

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Allender and Longman have an important point that shouldn’t be dismissed because some random person on the internet someone paints a nice picture humanizing God. They are respected leaders in their fields of biblical theology and Christian counseling.

Just pondering Sisyphus and frames of reference. In that story, the gods (external and transcendent to Sisyphus) may have ascribed a meaning, i.e. “punishment” to his actions, such that Sisphus’s actions are really part of a Grand Narrative that involves those gods’ purposes for the universe (and them enacting cosmic justice). But let’s imagine a Sisyphus who does not believe any gods exist, whose frame of reference is only himself. A materialist Sisyphus who finds himself rolling that rock endlessly. Does that fellow still have meaning (or simply a proximate purpose) to what he does?

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Re: Substitutionary atonement and whether the Father passively turned away or actively mocked the Son. I think we could all do with de-escalating some of the rhetoric and one-liners at play and taking a beat. Remember, this is not Twitter or Reddit, we’re in the dialogue business here.

Thanks for all the contributions to this fascinating topic so far and for @klw bringing us back on-topic.

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  • An atheist who decides that “life” is nothing more than “rolling the same rock up the same hill for all of eternity” would, IMO, be a remarkable atheist. What atheist believes that he’s going to be in any condition to do anything after he dies?
  • The story of Sisyphus, on the other hand, assumes -that:
    • humans [at least one human] live forever;
    • that gods exist;
    • that some gods are smarter than others,
    • but sometimes it’s possible for a human to outsmart one more than once; and
    • in doing so, trick, annoy, and offend a god,
    • ultimately being condemned by a god to do something that required effort but accomplished nothing … for all eternity.
  • Besides the difference between the atheist and the theist in the myth, there is also the noteworthy brute fact that Albert Camus did not make the Myth of Sisyphus up. The myth existed long before Camus was a twinkle in his father’s eye.
  • In other words, both myths, one by Greeks a couple of thousand years ago and the other by a 20th century French atheist, are fantasies made up by different people meaning completely different things in different times and places.
  • And the real tragedy is that a person can fail to write an acceptable essay on Camus’ essay and possibly fail a literature class and end up suffering the consequences until he or she dies.
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@Terry_Sampson did a good job giving a overview just a bit ago.

I think the meaning part is entirely up to him.

The Greeks came up with the story, aparently because the assigned work was laborious, pointless and repeatable. (They seemed to have a thing for endlessly repeated punishments. Prometheus comes to mind, too.)

Anyone who believes themselves to be within a meaningless life and finds that intolerable, will need to change how they understand some aspect of meaning or how they value meaninglessness. Or live an intolerable life.

As far as purpose for the atheistic Sisyphus, as I described purpose (as having been applied by the gods), it can’t be part of this version of the myth.

If I may presume for a moment that “meaning” and “purpose” are at least close cousins, if not one and the same, some may find this most recent holypost podcast interview with David French to be very insightful - as I propose it is. Their subject is, in part, focused on masculinity, but need not be limited to that (and indeed they don’t - that’s just the clickbait springboard they use while still casting the necessarily wider net). They are reacting to the recent notion put forward that all men need is respect. And he takes issue and insists that actually, it’s purpose (or mission) that is most missed if or when it goes AWOL.

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You are not alone in proposing meaning and purpose are cousins if not synonyms.

The podcast sounds interesting, in spite of its narrow focus. It’s good to hear someone is handing men back their ability (responsibility) to have some control over their place in the world, rather than making that the purpose of the other half of the human race.

How tragic for men, who believe that their main need is respect (from someone else) — and that particularly from the other half of the species. How fragile the self has got to be, how needy and demanding.

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I can easily understand how this comment I previously made got lost in the shuffle. There is something particularly important in the questions I find relevant to what you mean when you talk about meaning :grin:

What are the most important things? Do you believe genuine revival or works of the Spirit happen?

Interesting switch back to shame and a subject we touched on recently in the thread. No this is not a ham handed :wink: attempt to bring back talk of the atonement.

But I would like to say something about shame. What a word! A few years ago I picked up Ed Welch’s book Shame Interrupted. Curiously while I struggled with respect, even read the book Love and Respect, which did more harm than good at that stage of my life… so I knew the word respect, but honestly did not “know” the word shame as a 40 yo guy.

It was like my eyes were opened, no exaggeration, to identify the word and relate it to how I felt.

I think it’s a reasonable presumption that nearly any believer here would answer that question affirmatively. It’s how to recognize the Spirit’s work as such - that is the challenge, at least for the spectators.

You should listen to the interview I linked above - they talk about shame culture, and other things that have contributed to our current cultural stew pot; not just for men. I regret their episode title to the extent that the subject matter might be seen as irrelevant for women.

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Exactly! That is their observation too. We all want respect (men and women both). And giving respect is a nice and kind thing - no arguments from them on that. It’s when it grows to an entitlement that is taken for granted and only noticed in its absence that stuff goes south (almost literally in the cultural sense they address!). We are an insecure bunch indeed as we chase after the praise and respect of others, ever ready to take umbrage at any real or imagined slight. One hopes that we can grow up spiritually and emerge from that. Lord help us.

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