True enough! Salvation is not made with any force of compulsion. Some of us may indeed actually want to linger in our own mess rather than give up our pride or pleasure in this or that and humbly accept what we need. That our rejection of salvation - our stubbornness should be co-eternal with God’s grace extended through Christ is quite another claim entirely and one where I don’t see much (if any) scriptural support for those who would challenge eventual universalism. To say “few find the path to life” and “many are those who choose the road to perdition” is not the same as saying “few will ever find the path to life” and that the many on the road to hell will never ever be rescued! I think this instead is commentary on how easy it is to chase other things rather than God, and how few of us really seek God in our daily lives. A teacher can note that “very few people work this problem correctly” without that being commentary that most of the class is expected to permanently fail and never get it right. We are all rescued while we are still sinners! Yes - we do need to accept the gift; and many choose (for now) not to. To say that God’s grace was only efficacious for the very few is to empty it of its scope and power! I think I’ll stick with scriptures on this one.
An old joke: There was a crotchety old man who was always critical of everyone else. No one could ever do anything right according to his own high standards. He died and went to heaven. While there he was able to look over and see large crowds in hell who were partying it up and seemed to be having quite a good time. Meanwhile, God was preparing the banquet feast - some microwaved hot dogs. As He was setting the table, the man said, "God - I don’t mean to complain here, but it looks like they’re enjoying quite a feast over there and … well … re-warmed hot dogs for us?! To which God replied, “yeah - I know. It’s just hard to get into cooking just for the two of us.”