It is possible for the earth to appear old to science without it actually being old and without God being deceitful?

What appearance of age would she have? Age, not maturity. Parents? Photos from childhood? Memories of teen years? High school exam results? Where would Adam get the idea that she had been around for years and suddenly just wandered into the garden?

Again this is not analogous, this is God clearly and explicitly arranging a situation in which there is no false appearance of age.

Where are we told that the taste gave the false impression that the wine had been produced over years of vine growing, harvesting, fermentation, and bottling? You’ve ignored all the reasons why your analogy was false. There’s no indication that Jesus deliberately created the wine with a false appearance of a fictional past.