Richard, this, finally, is a clear statement of your critical error!!
Evolutionary theory says nothing about whether God exists, or not. If you are really trying to argue that God exists, then we don’t have any need to discuss, we agree!
Many people have been trying to tell you that evolution is not about God at all; it is trying to show what Nature can do. No, evolution is not about Christ, one way or the other. Stop trying to say evolution says something it doesn’t say! Evolutionary theory, done correctly by good scientists, explicitly states that it says nothing about whether God exists, or does not exist.
I believe that correct Christian theology and good scientific observations in any field of study are compatible. If God created this world, as I believe, then how it works is God’s choice, and working to understand how God put together His world is a good thing.
I am not arguing YEC with you, Richard. I am just saying that your arguments sound like the same philosophical style that I have heard from YEC practitioners. And I find it interesting that you are willing to state that not every argument against evolution is YEC, but do not seem to be able to see that not every argument for evolution is against God! In fact, no argument for evolution is in any way a direct argument against God! It is a very bad scientific stretch to use evolutionary theory to conclude that God does not exist.
If you have a particular “scientific” writing that claims this, and claims to be science, then point to it, and you will get some exceedingly strong support in helping to discredit it from a lot of the people with whom you have been arguing.
If you have specific claims about details of evolutionary theory that you believe are based on inaccurate observations or invalid analysis, just saying that the results don’t agree with your understanding of theistic evolution, and therefor the evolutionary theory must be wrong, makes you look foolish.