Patrick, there’s no way I can really respond to you without getting off topic here (it will probably develop into a completely different thread).
But in any case I agree with you. Any individual person can find meaning and purpose that fits with that particular person. A person can theoretically spend the majority of his life in a closet and believe that his life is very meaningful and purposeful. Just as much as a person who studies mathematics and science, getting degrees and understanding, and believe that his life has great meaning. The same can be said about a person who wants to rid the world of redheads — to that person it’s his purpose. It’s all incredibly subjective.
Where I think you and I would disagree is that meaning and purpose (according to you) ONLY exist in the EYE of the BEHOLDER and no where else. And I disagree. It could be that your meaning conflicts with my meaning, or that your purpose could conflict my purpose — who is to be the judge in all this?
It seems that your solution is simply to leave people in their own little groups and not try to convert anyone to maybe seeing things differently. Other people want to harmonize on the things that they agree on. These are all great and civil … Except that they all seem to agree on (in different degrees of extent) a more relativistic worldview.
It seems to me that the way people see things are very shortsighted. I can ask a friend to meet me at the bank at six o’clock in the evening tomorrow night. That friend could reply, “Why?” I could tell that same friend, “Don’t worry about it. Just trust me.” And my friend would say, “Look here. If I’m gonna be taking time out of my day to meet you at some bank I gotta know the reason why I’m doing it.”
And his point would be valid.
However if I ask that same friend, “What is the overall purpose of your life as a whole?” Then he won’t give the same reaction. He will bend over backwards, trying as best he can, not to answer my question directly.
It seems to me very odd how we, as humans, require ample reason to fill up two hours of our day, but when it comes to our entire life, we avoid answering the question like the plague. We are very good at filling our time with distractions upon distractions so we don’t have to answer it … And we can just push that dilemma deeper and deeper down with more “stuff” so we don’t have to think about it.
Until inevitably great thinkers stop the distractions, put the world on hold, and say, “Wait a minute. What am I doing here? Why is this thing I’m doing so important?”
In any case, it’s some things to think about.
-Tim