I think we are reading the same bible! And yes, I remain to be convinced by scriptures (or you) that wrath occupies the same importance among alleged divine attributes as does, say, love, mercy, justice, and maybe other things too. Because I can find bible verses (both testaments) extolling all those latter things and exhorting us to emulate them …(be perfect as your Father in heaven is perfect). But I search in vain for any verses (in either testament!) giving us general exhortations toward being wrathful creatures. What I find instead are verses such as in James 1 (…that we are to be slow to anger because our anger does not produce the righteousness of God), or in the Corinthians ‘love’ chapter we see all sorts of other great attributes that we are to chase - wrath doesn’t even make this list - except in this negative sense: that love is not easily provoked and does not take into account a wrong suffered. The closest I could come to finding something that might support the case for wrath was in Ephesians (4:26) where we are told to: “be angry, but do not sin” - but then even there our love affair with anger gets ruined as we read on: “…do not let the sun go down on your anger and do not give the devil an opportunity.” Do we ever hear those warnings attached to love? or patience? or any of the spiritual gifts at all? [I don’t recall anger being among those, by the way.]
So my conclusion is that God’s wrath (which you’ve amply shown to be a very present concept attributed to God by many of old) is significantly subordinate in an eternal sense to the other attributes that [I argue] the scriptures actually teach us about God. I.e. when God is wrathful, it is as a wrathful parent that loves their child and wants to protect their child from harm. I trust that you and I would agree that none of us (as parents ourselves) would want wrath to be the primary (or even any permanent) feature of our parent-child relationships. It is an occasionally necessary thing for the purpose of discipline - yes. But that is because we love. So even our wrath is never to be about the utter destruction of others, but instead to be about their salvation and redemption. How much more so from God?
But I’d better practice what I preach and refrain from even more provocation than I’ve already given here. You do force me to concede that (in sheer volume at least) the word ‘wrath’ is used in many, many places - which … okay I knew that, but it’s just how it’s used, and what it is teaching us about God’s ultimate character that I really want to attend to - as you do too, I’m sure. We’re probably not actually that far apart. Hope you had a blessed fourth.