It’s a correlation because we are always expected to believe and to actively use our imagination to hunt for clues that we found what we are looking for. It works the same with any imaginary supernatural beings. Let’s say I ask God to reveal himself to me and then, I see the heart shaped cloud. Is this God’s answer? But it’s these things that Christians typically point to as proof of Gods existence.
I disagree with your portrayal. More often, in my experience, people become atheists because they have exhausted all options of “ tugging on God’s heart”
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At night, when my wife would go to sleep, I would crawl out of bed and pray, weeping desperately, hoping that there was something more than the ceiling above me. At times, I had to take the pillow with me, because I was weeping so uncontrollably, I had to hold it to my face to muffle the sounds not to wake up my wife. I begged, screamed and pleaded. I whispered until my lips refused to move anymore. All I asked for was one sign from Jesus, that he was real and I was not making him up in my head. Just one small sign by which I could reliably know it was all real. I promised to give away all my wealth, my life, my finances, my hobbies. I bargained, I begged and cried, and yet, all I heard was silence. I really wanted to believe, in fact, I still do today, but after hearing only silence I secretly admitted to myself that I was an agnostic atheist.”
And this experience I don’t disagree with. People find solace in some Christian ideas, like the afterlife. What could console a crying young widow better than the hope of meeting her husband in heaven some day?
Of course, the idea of a Christian God that I grew up with was the idea of a strict ruler. He offered a way out of Hell by killing his own son, and he expected nothing less that perfection from me. How do you not lust after a woman at 13 years old, and yet, if you do, you are an adulterer ! And how can you expect to be forgiven for this sin if you keep committing it? Thankfully for those of us who are older, God eventually provides help, allowing the 90 year olds to stop lusting completely.
Then it seems as far as we are concerned it’s a stand still. Science can’t answer it, and we believe two different things about the experience. Where science can’t answer something I look to philosophy and part of Philosophy is religion which includes doctrine and so on this question I have one source and that’s scripture. There is not personal experience or argument that can undermine my faith in using scripture as the source to answer this question. So I’ll bounce out. I understand others have a different view, and to me those views are wrong, and to them my view is either wrong or most likely wrong, and so that’s that. I don’t mean that in a snarky or mean spirited way just that as a Christian when answering questions about Gods role in the life of humanity there is only one source.
Hopefully you are not gone for good from this thread, but I disagree that science can’t answer whether God shows up today. If God was doing what Jesus did, then his actions would be measurable. But if God is simply a hidden observer, then I agree, science cannot prove or disprove such a being.
The question of Gods existence has interested me, to the point of obsession at times, because I’ve feared Hell since an early age and that fear never really left me. As I get older and risks to my health increase, the fears do too.
I did not leave the thread. I just was saying that I don’t believe it’s fruitful for someone to say my experiences was this, and I say I dont accept everyone’s experiences as higher than theological truths, and then they say they experienced this and I just reply the same. I felt that was what the convo was becoming and I felt like it’s better to bounce that type of conversation.
I don’t believe that there is any evidence for God beyond using him to fill in gaps of science that’s not answered yet and for personal experiences. My faith is just that. It’s pure faith. That faith is predominantly used to fill in gaps of my experience. Atheism could perhaps just as easily have filled them in but it never grew, only faith did. I also don’t believe in any of the spiritual gifts existing anymore. I don’t believe in people seeing angels, demons, being healed miraculously on the spot from prayer and laying on of hands, I don’t believe in speaking in tongues or prophecy existing anymore. I think it all ceased because of scripture. But that’s a completely different thread. I’m bringing it up only to showcase that I sincerely don’t believe in scientific evidence for God and only see him in gaps that I also believe may eventually be filled with science , but in return will open up more doors and that there will always be another door.
The experiences that I’ve had from prayers being answered is also a byproduct of faith that though however unlikely, still has a statistical secular answer and it comes down to what I place my faith in to interpret that data.
I also don’t believe that scripture teaches eternal damnation of a conscious torment. I hope to make a post on it one day. I don’t think atheists need to fear dying without God. I think it’s just that.
I believe we all live this one time. We die and we are all resurrected and at that resurrection those in a Christ receive eternal life and those without Christ don’t receive that eternal life and die again. Their eternal punishment is death and that death is only a punishment because they could have remained alive eternally in a restored heaven and earth. I don’t believe that fear results in true faith but love.
You may really enjoy the studies put out by rethinking hell. It’s a incredible podcast with over 400 hours , and 90% of that is debates, solely on the topic of hell.
I sincerely believe that upon exhausting all scripture on hell and tracing back the words the Bible does not teach hell as many believe it to be.
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This does not refute annihilationism, but it does universalism:
Erasing Hell: What God Said about Eternity, and the Things We’ve Made Up
(Check out the ‘Look inside’ feature or download the sample if you do Kindle or the Kindle app. You can read the endorsements, the ToC, preface, intro and the first chapter.)
I wanted to do this as a separate response.
To me hearing your thoughts seems to fit with what I said. You have this at times obsessive desire based out of fear of hell. But to be afraid of hell means to believe in a God who can place you there. There are two verses that comes to mind.
Proverbs 9:10
New American Standard Bible
10 The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom,
And the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.
The second one is:
1 John 4:18
New American Standard Bible
18 There is no fear in love, but perfect love drives out fear, because fear involves punishment, and the one who fears is not perfected in love.
Many of us , and everyone Jewish person and Christian in history has at some point felt some kind of fear. We start off not doing something sinful because we don’t want to be punished by God. As time goes, snd you begin to trust God more snd more, your love gets closer snd closer to being perfected to the point that you choose not to sin because you want to please God.
An arranged marriage comes to mind. Two strangers meet and are married. They don’t really know each other, but they try to not cheat on each other because they don’t want to face the cultural stigma of being an adulterous person. They fear the shame. But as they begin to know one another, and spend more time with one another, they begin to fall in love. As they fall in love they both longer Reno’s faithful out of fear but love. That’s where I feel the second verse and the first verses harmonize. I don’t think they are a contradiction but a progressing mindset.
If they always remained just in a state of fear, there will never be any true love or common ground found.
Many also believe that because hell is not this place of everlasting torment , as the symbolic imagery in revelation portrays, it means that there is less of a reason to love God. I disagree. I think as we remove God further from this hateful monster we begin to see the loving father. The absence of the monster is not the absence of the father.
So for me through faith I see this world as very beautiful. I’m extremely thankful to God for this wonderful and mysterious creation and for the wonderful people he places in my life. I often hear people mention something like, “ if only God would do this or that I would believe” and all I can think is he’s already done everything. He’s given us life, creation, love and even his son. Even if he was a deistic creator and there was no eternal life I would still want to please him because I love him and would gladly spend my short century on this earth as his follower. Eternal life is just a huge blessing.
So, and I understand you may not believe so, to me the unshakable consuming tug is the Holy Spirit still reaching out. I believe all the components of faith is there just waiting to be put together. But I also believe that they require help. I don’t believe in someone becoming a disciple all on their own. Faith is made to be shared and taught. He’s given us other disciples all across the world to be there for us to help us. That’s really the thing I am most thankful for. It’s not eternal life, its the family I have through Christ. No one is perfect, but there are amazing disciples in all nations. Even if the majority of self professing Christians are not really his , there are still some to be found everywhere.
If you must reply to me then stop with that ironic or sarcastic language.Its really annoying at least to me.It kinda remnids myself in a way. Wanna know how a teen boy doesnt lust over a girl?He doesnt.You know how you can become the best person in the world ?You dont. And thats why you need one that has to be. If no one is perfect then who is? Sorry i cant believe we came into existance with a role of a dice and i came here by pure luck of survival evolution (i do believe in evolution ,not the atheistic one).Im sorry i cant believe that this beautifull thing called nature came into existance by pure luck.Sorry i triied it didnt worked for me,
Never seen a christian do that lol.Have you?What kind of straw man is this?
I guess then ; the ancient greek philosophers who were pagans and did adressed their gods were stupid right?
Also at least here in Greece santa claus is not an imaginery “beign”.Santa here is saint Nicholas which leaved at now day Turkey.He is considered a saint for the church here but nonethelless he was a historical person.
Also imaginary? Yeah tell that to those pesky early christians who died claiming they saw him.
Ps:Im sad that you were forced to believe.becasue it really seems like it from what you wrote.Anyway thats not a correlation though.I know people who were raised believing in nothing.Some became more radical about it and some turned to the opposite side.So not all people raised believing in things like God or as you said imiganary santa etc etc.Yet some of them later do.
This division between believers and non-believers is a real one, IMO. We non-believers have made peace with the idea of the universe being the result of unguided processes. I’m not saying that one side is better than the other, only recognizing that this is one of the bigger differences between the two groups.
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Yeah i agree. If you made peace with it inside you and it seems logical to you im ok with it.For me it doesnt and nothing is gonna change it(expect maybe if we actually build a time machine)
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So believers hear their names, unbelievers don’t. I don’t, therefore I’m not a believer. Rigggghht.
Although I’m a reluctant unbeliever. I wish there were some kind of a loving deity who’s pure love.
See what? Hear what? I invoke God certainly. I hear Him through the mental noise. I make Him up that way. I project Him that way.
This way. Make it so Vlad, make Him so. Like a good little existentialist.
God is not Santa Claus with no coal. He is Love, but he is also Righteousness, Justice, Mercy and Grace.
They are aspects of Love.