Hi, Olayinka. I see that you’re new to BioLogos, so thank you for joining us. I hope you find a positive sense of belonging here.
The question you’ve asked here is something I’ve spent many years of research on. The position I hold is different from the other responses you’ve heard so far on this thread. This is because I’m a practising Christian mystic. So I’m at the opposite end of the spectrum from @Klax on this topic. But any words we use in this discussion can only be a starting point for the topic of how God communicates with us. It’s an extremely complex reality that overlaps with all the foundational elements of human activity: neuroscience, psychology, philosophy, pedagogy, theology, creativity, meaning, happiness, intuition, relationship with God, and, in turn, the many other aspects of life that are impacted by our core neuroscientific patterns.
You’re right in noticing that quite a number of people claim God speaks directly to them. And you’re right to wonder why this doesn’t happen to everyone. I can offer some thoughts on those questions.
First, I’d like to start by saying that God is always in relationship with each and every human being on Planet Earth, regardless of whether we believe in this or want this in our lives. God and God’s angels are always communicating with us, whether or not we ask for communication. Many Christians believe with great sincerity that God wants to communicates with us; but then we make the mistake of assuming that God only communicates with us through words.
Words are an almost endless source of confusion as far as God as concerned. Words can be twisted, used to empower deceit and abuse, coated with honey while delivering toxic bullets. Even without evil intents, words can be misunderstood, misheard, mistranslated, misremembered. So while words are absolutely essential to our lives, words must always be backed up, confirmed, verified by other sources. Some such sources include math, scientific research, and economic patterns. God communicates with us through multiple simultaneous avenues, so if we really want to understand what God is saying to us, we have to combine data and findings from many different fields of inquiry. Words from prophets and preachers in the absence of corroborating evidence from God’s other “languages” (e.g. math) just don’t cut it. So if you haven’t personally heard any direct words from God, I wouldn’t worry about it. God has good reasons for not speaking directly to most human beings.
Second, you ask if there’s a special breed of individuals with special abilities. Heh. Well, I can tell you, based on my own experience, that a small number of individuals are born with the hardwiring to push human intuition to its biological limits. But there are many caveats to this statement. And these caveats must be understood from a strictly biological perspective, because when prophets and preachers make the purely theological claims they make about revelation (ever so loudly and with no confirmation from science) they can really hurt a lot of other people with the stupid, hurtful things they say about God. So again, if you’re not loudly promoting a narcissistic agenda of revelation, that’s probably a good thing from God’s point of view.
Third, for the small number of people who are born with the hardwiring to become a mystic (who feels God’s presence and hears God’s words, but doesn’t indulge in narcissistic prophesying), it’s extremely hard work. You might think life becomes easy once you can hear God’s voice – and some parts of life do become much easier (for example, I no longer fear death) – but once you commit to the path of hearing God’s words on a regular basis, you’re expected to use those words wisely for the benefit of others and not for your own narcissistic goals and purposes.
You’ve probably noticed by now that I’ve used the word “narcissistic” several times. No doubt you know that narcissists believe they are specially chosen to have special abilities to specially save other people with their magnificent, special words.
A person who’s actually listening to God’s voice instead of his/her own narcissism doesn’t believe in specialness or chosenness. At all.
Hope this helps. God bless.