Quoting from my reasons to believe No. 5
I feel there are profound pragmatic reasons to reject the idea that reality is exclusively objective because it immediately takes any conviction about reality to a conclusion that the people who disagree with you are detached from reality and delusional or in some other way defective, I don’t believe that this is at all conducive to the values and ideals of a free society. The plain fact is that our direct contact with reality is wholly subjective and it is the objective which is the abstraction that has to be fabricated. Now I certainly think there is very good evidence that there is an objective aspect to reality but I see nothing to support taking this to the extreme of presuming that reality is exclusively objective.
Quoting from my introduction which tackles the definitions of these terms
Our most basic access to the world is personal experience and this is the essence of what subjective means. The objective is an abstraction which we piece together as an understanding of what is the same for everyone. One of the most successful methods and strictest standards for this is found in science, which gives us written procedures anyone can follow to get the same results. While personal experience may be the most compelling reason for our own belief, it does not provide a basis for a reasonable expectation that others should agree. That expectation, derived from proof and evidence, is what the objective is all about and when we have them it only makes sense for this to take precedence.
Science establishes no such thing. I do think there is excellent evidence that there is an objective aspect to reality from the way science has defied our expectations. But science doesn’t even concern itself with the question of what is reality. That is a question of philosophy not science.
Right… reminds me of the pompous visitor to a native culture telling them that the manitou (or whatever) which they experience as a part of their lives are not real. Sorry, but I will not participate in such attitudes. That is just them thinking that they can dictate reality to other people.