Total absurdity! Your accusations and replies approach insanity.
What I won’t do is avoid the words “planning” and “choosing” because I believe God is quite capable of ordering His actions temporally despite not being confined to our particular measure of time (or any measure of time for that matter)… because I believe God is capable of all the same things any persons are capable of. I believe in a God who is more capable than we are and not one enslaved to human theology. God CAN takes risks, give privacy to others, make sacrifices, make a rock so heavy even He cannot lift it, and set aside knowledge and power in order to become a helpless human infant.
This doesn’t mean that there are no limits on what we can rationally say about God. His omnipotence does not mean that God can do whatever we say by whatever means we care to dictate. That irrationality of demanding that we have our cake and eat it too is the failing of our own weak minds and not a coherent limitation on God Himself.