I was reflecting on those last night, and especially about the ‘enjoyability’ of my nephrectomy, and it brought back to mind @Colleen_Peters’s pair of choice quotes,
It was definitely an inconvenience, not to complain about, but definitely also an adventure to be enjoyed, especially given the big picture. I need to keep that in mind about more trivial inconveniences!
I’m also reminded of vacations. I don’t remember where I read it years ago, but someone has described them as being a different set of problems to be solved than our workaday experiences. My wife is the planner (she solves the planning problems) and I get the inconvenient problems to solve adventures that arise when plans go awry.